He is 18 years old and died in a terrible crash, if you pray please do so for my wife ,more than I, She raised him from the day he was born and she is in terrible shape right now.
So if Am not around for a while you know why.
This is a pain I have never felt before in my life, if it were possible to die in his place ,I would do in a blinking of an eye.
Thank you
Cubasicastrono Wrote:He is 18 years old and died in a terrible crash, if you pray please do so for my wife ,more than I, She raised him from the day he was born and she is in terrible shape right now.
So if Am not around for a while you know why.
This is a pain I have never felt before in my life, if it were possible to die in his place ,I would do in a blinking of an eye.
Thank you
My utmost sincere condelences. I won't even pretend to know what you and your wife are going through right now.
All my best..
AK
Sincere Condolences.
As a parent now I can't even imagine the pain.
Cubasicastrono Wrote:He is 18 years old and died in a terrible crash, if you pray please do so for my wife ,more than I, She raised him from the day he was born and she is in terrible shape right now.
So if Am not around for a while you know why.
This is a pain I have never felt before in my life, if it were possible to die in his place ,I would do in a blinking of an eye.
Thank you
Wow! How do you face such a thing?
Is this the auto accident that happened in Doral this morning?
Ak
angelking Wrote:Is this the auto accident that happened in Doral this morning?
Ak
Yes just 10 blocks from the house, I feel such pain right now I want to die.
Cubasicastrono Wrote:angelking Wrote:Is this the auto accident that happened in Doral this morning?
Ak
Yes just 10 blocks from the house, I feel such pain right now I want to die.
This too shall pass.
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I don't think there can be any words of comfort at this sad time, but I'll keep you and your wife in my prayers.
Sincere condolences to you and your wife. What a tragic thing to happen, as you say, no words to express the pain and sorrow you and your family are feeling now.
Hang on to all the precious memories and take comfort in that and the love of your family and friends.
Janet
I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
I can not imagine a worse pain than losing a child.
May God give you the strenght to live through these painful days.
As Mercy said, I believe that the loss of a child is the greatest pain one can face.
While you certainly must grieve, I hope you find peace with this as soon as possible.
I am very sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you and your family.
Quiennosabe Wrote:As Mercy said, I believe that the loss of a child is the greatest pain one can face.
While you certainly must grieve, I hope you find peace with this as soon as possible.
I am very sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you and your family.
While I can't even imagine such a thing, I'm interested in hearing how he mitigates the pain in the coming weeks. I hear keeping busy helps stop from dwelling on it.
My ex-hair dresser's son died on mother's day. He was coming back from the prom with another friend after dropping off their dates at home. He crashed on the Palmetto at the Coral Way exit. He had to be identified by dental records.
This was 7 years ago. She tells me everytime she thinks of her son, her heart aches. She doesn't cut hair anymore either.
I would not know where to begin....then again, women are more emotional than men. That's a good thing.
P.S. As an aside, I deleted what needed deletion. No es facil...
Mercy Wrote:My ex-hair dresser's son died on mother's day. He was coming back from the prom with another friend after dropping off their dates at home. He crashed on the Palmetto at the Coral Way exit. He had to be identified by dental records.
This was 7 years ago. She tells me every time she thinks of her son, her heart aches. She doesn't cut hair anymore either.
I would not know where to begin....then again, women are more emotional than men. That's a good thing.
P.S. As an aside, I deleted what needed deletion. No es facil...
I sure like to know who said what was said, some people just don't have any class, If I were to bet, it was probably some smart ass remark by some focking left wing crap from up north.
I sure would like to know who.
Because even Steve Whom we argue with all the time here and in Cubamania , had some real nice words to Cubasi (Cubanazo).
This family is going through the worst of the worst, it was an untimely death of a child he raised as if he were his son, him and his wife took care of him from the day he was born ,because the real mother became disable mentally.
I known this family all my life and I tell you there was no better child, not a gang banger, but a smart kid who graduated high school at age 16, was going to college to get a music degree, had just finish a CD demo and had a contract with Sony, worked since he was 16,he was so joyful this week because he had a new Job with a Lawyer's firm and the CD.
I have being at Cubasi's House all this past 2 days, running all the errands that must be done and I have never seen so many people show up to a house, between Kids and Adults They don't know who these people were.
One old guy and wife came and I asked them ,why are you here, they said we know Chichi, and I ask how, they Said he helped us moved stuff out of out house ,when he was passing by one day and he saw my husband couldn't lift a sofa, he grabbed it and put it on his shoulder and carried it out by himself, then he go by every day and beeped at us and wave.
Another lady who works at the gas station near the house, was all broken up, she said chichi stopped by everyday to buy something or gas,he would come in and hug me, all the other kids that come here won't even look at you in the eyes and say hello, he was different, and on and on, with the stories that his Father and Cubasi didn't even know, this was truly a special Child.
Peter Wrote:Mercy Wrote:My ex-hair dresser's son died on mother's day. He was coming back from the prom with another friend after dropping off their dates at home. He crashed on the Palmetto at the Coral Way exit. He had to be identified by dental records.
This was 7 years ago. She tells me every time she thinks of her son, her heart aches. She doesn't cut hair anymore either.
I would not know where to begin....then again, women are more emotional than men. That's a good thing.
P.S. As an aside, I deleted what needed deletion. No es facil...
I sure like to know who said what was said, some people just don't have any class, If I were to bet, it was probably some smart ass remark by some focking left wing crap from up north.
I sure would like to know who.
Because even Steve Whom we argue with all the time here and in Cubamania , had some real nice words to Cubasi (Cubanazo).
This family is going through the worst of the worst, it was an untimely death of a child he raised as if he were his son, him and his wife took care of him from the day he was born ,because the real mother became disable mentally.
I known this family all my life and I tell you there was no better child, not a gang banger, but a smart kid who graduated high school at age 16, was going to college to get a music degree, had just finish a CD demo and had a contract with Sony, worked since he was 16,he was so joyful this week because he had a new Job with a Lawyer's firm and the CD.
I have being at Cubasi's House all this past 2 days, running all the errands that must be done and I have never seen so many people show up to a house, between Kids and Adults They don't know who these people were.
One old guy and wife came and I asked them ,why are you here, they said we know Chichi, and I ask how, they Said he helped us moved stuff out of out house ,when he was passing by one day and he saw my husband couldn't lift a sofa, he grabbed it and put it on his shoulder and carried it out by himself, then he go by every day and beeped at us and wave.
Another lady who works at the gas station near the house, was all broken up, she said chichi stopped by everyday to buy something or gas,he would come in and hug me, all the other kids that come here won't even look at you in the eyes and say hello, he was different, and on and on, with the stories that his Father and Cubasi didn't even know, this was truly a special Child.
My daughter at age 31, in the prime of her life has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer and given a 5% survival. I never thought a child of mine would die before me, it is just not suppose to happen.
Now I watch as her life spirals downward toward death, the chemo, the hair loss, the weight loss, her depressions and suicidal tendencies, the feeding tubes.... god almighty why not me I ask?
There is not a night since this diagnosis I go to sleep that I don't think about her and shed tears. There is not a morning I wake up and not think about her and how much I am going to miss her once she is gone.
If you love your children because I know not everyone does, give them a hug, a kiss and tell them just that. Children don't come with a guarantee they will outlive you and once they are gone they will leave the biggest hole in your heart that your heart can bear!